Maybe you have to accept that you’re boring

Towards an aesthetics of norminess

Political directors of the then 12 European Community countries, 1988. Photo under a CC BY SA.de license here.

Since my teens I have frequently fantasized about sex with men. In my early-30s, I had my one IRL same-sex experience from which I, with true comedian’s timing, contracted chlamydia. Nowadays, in the rotating cast of my sexual fantasies, pretty …